How to not feel inferior in front of a very beautiful girl?
1. Remember this sentence, Women who don't date you are essentially like men... She is not your wife, not your girlfriend, no matter how beautiful she looks, it has nothing to do with you. When we were in middle school, we learned a phrase: "The sea accepts all rivers, being tolerant makes one great; standing alone on a cliff, without desires, is strong." Focus on the last four words. 2. In "The Deer and the Cauldron," there is a man who is madly infatuated with Chen Yuanyuan, working like a beast for twenty years, never even touching her hand, Wei Xiaobao comments: "A losing business, I would never do it." 3. A passage from "Men's Group," "Since you were young and started interacting with girls, you've always heard about chasing girls, chasing girls, chasing girls." "So, a habitual way of thinking has formed: girls must be chased!" "But actually, that's not true at all. There is no such thing as chasing girls. Even if you do, they are not truly yours." "Women are people, not prey." "But you always treat them as prey—sending flowers, giving gifts, picking them up and dropping them off, candlelight dinners, and then guarding them fiercely." "This might make the girl stay with you, but does she truly like you? She is just touched." "But this has nothing to do with you personally; she can be touched by you or by someone else." "Make her feel touched, but more importantly, make her feel moved, because being moved is proactive, while being touched is passive." "To make her feel moved, you shouldn't spend too much effort on her; you should put effort into yourself."
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How to not feel inferior in front of a very beautiful girl?
1. Remember this sentence,
Women who don't date you are essentially like men...
She is not your wife, not your girlfriend, no matter how beautiful she looks, it has nothing to do with you.
When we were in middle school, we learned a phrase: "The sea accepts all rivers, being tolerant makes one great; standing alone on a cliff, without desires, is strong." Focus on the last four words.
2. In "The Deer and the Cauldron," there is a man who is madly infatuated with Chen Yuanyuan, working like a beast for twenty years, never even touching her hand,
Wei Xiaobao comments: "A losing business, I would never do it."
3. A passage from "Men's Group,"
"Since you were young and started interacting with girls, you've always heard about chasing girls, chasing girls, chasing girls."
"So, a habitual way of thinking has formed: girls must be chased!"
"But actually, that's not true at all. There is no such thing as chasing girls. Even if you do, they are not truly yours."
"Women are people, not prey."
"But you always treat them as prey—sending flowers, giving gifts, picking them up and dropping them off, candlelight dinners, and then guarding them fiercely."
"This might make the girl stay with you, but does she truly like you? She is just touched."
"But this has nothing to do with you personally; she can be touched by you or by someone else."
"Make her feel touched, but more importantly, make her feel moved, because being moved is proactive, while being touched is passive."
"To make her feel moved, you shouldn't spend too much effort on her; you should put effort into yourself."