Has anyone ever won a big prize here? It seems not! In the storms of life, you have to digest your own grievances, break through your own difficulties, and heal your own wounds. It's lucky if someone is willing to help you; having no one to support you is the true nature of life. Don't rely on others for a sense of security; the deeper the dependence, the more out of control you become. Never expect anyone to be your backing. People are only loved because they are valuable, not because you lack love.