This makes me feel deeply; as a person, you really shouldn't always compare yourself to others, especially not using your shortcomings to compare with others' strengths. Comparing and comparing, in the end, can only drive yourself crazy. Even though I have a relatively good mindset, I always compare myself to my past self. Compared to the brutal survival environment back then, life is really too comfortable now... To clarify, this screenshot is an answer from Zhihu. The question is about a programmer who said his colleague was kept by a wealthy woman, and he feels unbalanced.