Once you have been in a few relationships, you will find that loyalty, honesty, responsibility, dedication, accountability, and self-sacrifice—these precious qualities in love—are not determined by love or lack thereof, but by the character and spiritual core of the other person. A selfish, hypocritical, cowardly, and shallow person, no matter how much they love you, cannot provide those qualities.
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TeaOldFriends
· 2025-09-11 03:03
The greatest sorrow of middle-aged men is: the spring passes but the flowers remain, people come and the birds are not startled. The greatest sorrow of middle-aged women is: from a distance, the mountains have color, but up close, the water is silent.
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DogHeadSmiles_WealthS
· 2025-09-11 03:03
The greatest sorrow of middle-aged men is: the spring is gone but the flowers remain, people come and the birds are not startled. The greatest sorrow of middle-aged women is: from a distance, the mountains have color, but up close, the water is silent.
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CandyPudding
· 2025-09-11 03:03
The greatest sorrow of middle-aged men is: spring goes, but the flowers remain; people come, but the birds are not startled. The greatest sorrow of middle-aged women is: from afar, the mountains have color; up close, the water is silent.
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RaiseYourHeadAndWeal
· 2025-09-11 03:03
The greatest sorrow of middle-aged men is: the spring has gone but the flowers remain, people come and the birds are not startled. The greatest sorrow of middle-aged women is: from afar the mountains have color, up close the water is silent.
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ShadowBladeWithoutTra
· 2025-09-11 03:03
The greatest sorrow of middle-aged men is: spring has passed, yet the flowers remain, people come and the birds are not startled. The greatest sorrow of middle-aged women is: from afar, the mountains have color, but up close, the water is silent.
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LoneWolfOfTheDarkNi
· 2025-09-11 03:03
The greatest sorrow of middle-aged men is: Spring has gone, but the flowers remain; people come and the birds are unafraid. The greatest sorrow of middle-aged women is: From a distance, the mountains have color; up close, the water is silent.
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TheGoldenTouchOfDog
· 2025-09-11 03:03
The greatest sorrow of middle-aged men is: the spring has gone but the flowers remain, people come and the birds are not startled. The greatest sorrow of middle-aged women is: from a distance, the mountains have color, but up close, the water is silent.
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DogHeadLeadsTheWay_s
· 2025-09-11 03:03
The greatest sorrow of middle-aged men is: the spring has gone but the flowers remain, people come and the birds are not startled. The greatest sorrow of middle-aged women is: from afar the mountains have color, but up close the water is silent.
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Turkey
· 2025-09-11 03:03
The greatest sorrow of middle-aged men is: the spring has gone but the flowers remain, people come and the birds are not startled. The greatest sorrow of middle-aged women is: from a distance, the mountains have color, but up close, the water is silent.
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ATurnOfTheDog_sHead
· 2025-09-11 03:03
The greatest sorrow of middle-aged men is: the spring has gone but the flowers remain, people come and the birds are not startled. The greatest sorrow of middle-aged women is: from a distance, the mountains have color, but up close, the water makes no sound.
Once you have been in a few relationships, you will find that loyalty, honesty, responsibility, dedication, accountability, and self-sacrifice—these precious qualities in love—are not determined by love or lack thereof, but by the character and spiritual core of the other person. A selfish, hypocritical, cowardly, and shallow person, no matter how much they love you, cannot provide those qualities.