Because it's truly difficult when people borrow money, I deeply experienced this after my margin call in 2020 on 3/12
First of all, I borrow selectively, because I don't want relationships to be affected by borrowing money
At that time, I only borrowed from people who had helped me before, but to my surprise, most of them refused
Especially a college classmate of mine, which was very disappointing
Initially, when we weren't very close, I lent him half a month's living expenses, and he was starving at the time
He thought I was very righteous and was very grateful, and later we gradually became friends
After graduating from college, I worked at a company in the crypto space. Due to some issues, I had to resign
The job was pretty good, and since he was unemployed, I recommended him internally
I told my boss about it, and during the third interview, he confirmed his abilities again. I spoke highly of him
It went smoothly; I resigned, and he started working there
Not long after, my classmate caught a wave of opportunity in this position and earned over 2 million
Later, he kept showing off, talking about how much money he spent on dating, buying this and that
He showed no gratitude or appreciation towards me. Actually, I didn't expect him to thank or be grateful. Then, in March 2020, I explicitly lent him 50,000 yuan, and he outright refused, starting to cry poor
I was very upset, realizing that people can be like this. I can only say that my righteous nature is seen as worthless by some people
Since then, I vowed to make more money and cash out more
When I have money, I don't cherish it; when I don't, it's really tough, brothers
Dignity and face will all fall to the ground.
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MayTheYearsBeGentle
· 12-13 02:30
His behavior is a social norm; we are too kind. The gratitude expressed verbally is just acting. At that time, work introductions turned into whether you could treat him to a meal or give gifts to judge a person's character.
Making money should be cashed out promptly
Because it's truly difficult when people borrow money, I deeply experienced this after my margin call in 2020 on 3/12
First of all, I borrow selectively, because I don't want relationships to be affected by borrowing money
At that time, I only borrowed from people who had helped me before, but to my surprise, most of them refused
Especially a college classmate of mine, which was very disappointing
Initially, when we weren't very close, I lent him half a month's living expenses, and he was starving at the time
He thought I was very righteous and was very grateful, and later we gradually became friends
After graduating from college, I worked at a company in the crypto space. Due to some issues, I had to resign
The job was pretty good, and since he was unemployed, I recommended him internally
I told my boss about it, and during the third interview, he confirmed his abilities again. I spoke highly of him
It went smoothly; I resigned, and he started working there
Not long after, my classmate caught a wave of opportunity in this position and earned over 2 million
Later, he kept showing off, talking about how much money he spent on dating, buying this and that
He showed no gratitude or appreciation towards me. Actually, I didn't expect him to thank or be grateful. Then, in March 2020, I explicitly lent him 50,000 yuan, and he outright refused, starting to cry poor
I was very upset, realizing that people can be like this. I can only say that my righteous nature is seen as worthless by some people
Since then, I vowed to make more money and cash out more
When I have money, I don't cherish it; when I don't, it's really tough, brothers
Dignity and face will all fall to the ground.