Your spouse is the only legitimate family you get to choose.

Please don't pick a liability!
A lot of young ladies and young men have already made this terrible mistake, unfortunately, you rarely get a 2nd opportunity to choose the right one after the first mistake!
You will try to console yourself with the child or children you acquired as a consequence of the mistake, but in your heart, you know your life will never remain the same! 😒🤷🏾‍♂️