# The Cunning of Deep Scheming



Xiaoliu went on a blind date and was having a great conversation when the woman asked: "Xiaoliu, it snowed heavily last night. It must be inconvenient to take a taxi today, right?"

Xiaoliu replied: "I drove here."

After hearing this, the woman was secretly delighted and asked again: "The snow on your car this morning must be thick and hard to clean, right?"

Xiaoliu confidently said: "No problem, I have a set of snow-clearing equipment."

After hearing this, the woman's face changed and she walked away immediately.

Do you know why?

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**The Answer:** The woman was testing Xiaoliu's character. When she asked about the snow, she was hoping he would admit he had difficulty or ask for help—signs of vulnerability and dependence that might indicate he was financially struggling. His confident answer about having snow-clearing equipment suggested he was well-off. However, this backfired because:

1. It made him seem *too* prepared and wealthy, which made the woman suspicious he might be showing off or lying
2. More importantly, it revealed he was *not* bothered by the hardship at all, suggesting either he's privileged/detached from common struggles, or his responses were calculated—exactly the kind of "calculated cleverness" (城府深) that turns people off on a first date

She walked away because his responses seemed rehearsed and inauthentic, lacking genuine human warmth.
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