What is the greatest sorrow of the poor?

Many parents have no real ability themselves,
confusedly bringing you into the world,
giving you a ugly face and a pig-brain.
Giving you a back of the head flatter than a rice scoop.
Casually giving you a broken name,
then telling you you must stand out.
Pushing all the chips onto your shoulders.
Many people endure an unhappy childhood,
painful adolescence, and hopeless youth.
They often suppress you when you're young,
but when you grow up, they want you to be confident.
When you're young, they tell you not to compete over food and clothes;
when you grow up, if you don't compare yourself to others, they say you're hopeless.
In school, they tell you not to fall in love early;
after graduation, they tell you to get married early.
Childhood demands rigidity and integrity,
but adulthood requires flexibility and smoothness.
Pushing marriage and childbirth, pushing you into the fire pit,
then they wash their hands of you clean.
They can't give you any life experience,
standing by idly, pointing and gesturing.