Women generally have weaker stress tolerance.

If the daily pressures men bear are directly imposed on most women, their mental state will quickly collapse, and their bodies won't last long.
So they instinctively avoid responsibilities and dodge problems.
A common pattern is: they only take responsibility for raising issues, and rely on their partner’s financial ability and competence to solve them.
Brothers who are already dating or married, can compare and see what role you really play in your partner’s eyes.
I’ll share two real situations, each followed by practical coping strategies.
First point:
She doesn’t clearly understand what responsibilities she should take on, only cares about her feelings and gains or losses.
This often indicates: she doesn’t truly like you, but has chosen a “suitable” person.
For a “suitable” person, she will keep demanding resources to feel secure, but almost never share risks.
When your conditions improve, she feels entitled to her demands; when your situation worsens, she starts to be critical.
Coping strategy:
Remember, any emotional relationship is essentially a verbal contract in name only, with no real exclusivity constraints.
You should decide how much to give based on the actual value the other person provides you.
Since it’s a verbal agreement, anyone can negotiate. Just screen people, don’t compromise your bottom line.
Second point:
She often looks for trouble; when you coax her, she temporarily calms down.
But brothers, pay attention: one time of coaxing is gentle, twice it starts to turn sour, and if it becomes a habit, it turns into appeasement.
If you want to communicate normally later, she will ask, “Why don’t you coax me anymore,” and the foundation of equal dialogue is gone.
Most likely, you’ll end up being the one to compromise unilaterally.
Coping strategy:
When communicating, follow this strict order:
1. State the objective facts first (without subjective evaluations)
2. Express your true feelings
3. Propose a solution at the end
Many arguments escalate because the order is reversed—people rush to express emotions or criticize first.
Complaining without offering solutions is just throwing a tantrum.
Following these three steps is enough; any extra soothing actions will just be seen as trying to please.
Let her rationalize subjectively on her own.
If she can’t rationalize reasonably, then focus your energy on those who can communicate equally.
Don’t fall into the trap of self-justification just because of a few words from her—that’s essentially PUA behavior and shows disrespect for men.
Society’s training for men is: you need to be mature, steady, and responsible.
In plain language: be honest and serve as a tool, endure hardships as expected, and hand over what you earn; if not, you’re immature and unmanly.
Ordinary men are suppressed, successful men are pursued.
From a simp to an alpha, there are layers of social status in between, but women will always remain women.