Being shameless is quite refreshing. For example, if I reject you, I won't feel the slightest bit uncomfortable, because your discomfort is your own business, not mine. Similarly, if I like you and need your help, I will tell you immediately without feeling embarrassed, because whether to speak up is my business, and whether to accept is yours, not mine. Being rejected is normal; if I try, I have a 50% chance, but if I don't, I have zero chance.
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DogHeadSmiles_WealthS
· 03-01 00:11
A good mindset is: I am no longer interested in leaving a good impression on everyone. What you see is what you get. I do not refute good or bad, I do not want to explain, and I am even too lazy to explain. How much you can understand me is how much you can understand me. Whatever kind of person you think I am, you are entitled to that kind of me.
Being shameless is quite refreshing. For example, if I reject you, I won't feel the slightest bit uncomfortable, because your discomfort is your own business, not mine. Similarly, if I like you and need your help, I will tell you immediately without feeling embarrassed, because whether to speak up is my business, and whether to accept is yours, not mine. Being rejected is normal; if I try, I have a 50% chance, but if I don't, I have zero chance.