How to stimulate a man's self-esteem, what are the words that make him so angry? The first sentence is called the parental association pattern, which means 'Why are you so selfish, just like your parents.' The second sentence is called the never pattern, 'You have never cared about me,' this sentence will negate all the tenderness and beautiful memories in his mind, and turn all his tenderness and love for you into despair and anger. The third sentence is the blind comparison pattern. 'Look at how good the neighbor Mr. Wang is, and look at what kind of person you are, what kind of behavior you have. I must have been blind to marry you.' The fourth sentence is the complete questioning pattern, 'Do you have any control over this?' This sentence will instantly turn a man's love, care, and tenderness for you into anger. The fifth sentence is the invincible denial pattern, which means 'You are not a real man,' as long as you say this, you can instantly turn a gentle and warm man into a brutal LION. So a conclusion is reached, in interpersonal communication, if you use these manipulative means to constantly stimulate a person's self-esteem bottom line, anyone will get angry.