☃️(( Changing a person is "difficult" because of their personality, while changing a person is "easy" because of human nature ))☃️

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Insight: When you find it difficult to change a person, you must have hit a wall in personality; and when you suddenly realize that changing a person is particularly easy, you must have found motivation in commonality.

Commonality refers to the laws that are shared on a human level, such as the fact that no one likes to be criticized or blamed by others, even if you have their best interests at heart, including their own parents. If you attempt to change someone by pointing out their flaws, it is equivalent to going against the laws of nature and also opposing their personality.

So when you are hit by setbacks and feelings of frustration, you will have a strong sense that it is very difficult to change a person.

And intriguingly, when you start to apply the principles and find the commonalities at the human level, you will suddenly realize that a person's personality can be easily changed. This commonality at the human level is the preference for receiving guidance positively rather than having faults pointed out negatively.

When you see his strengths, give him encouragement and affirmation, help him find confidence and gain self-esteem, those personality flaws will self-correct. So you will find that changing a person is so simple.

In summary, if you want to change a person and do not understand human nature, you are essentially going against the rules. Not only will you repel others, but you will also create more pain for yourself.

Therefore, to solve any problem, we should master the unchanging and respond to the ever-changing. What remains unchanged for a thousand years is the good and evil of our human nature, while our personalities can change at any moment.

But why do you think it's difficult to change a person? Is it because you haven't grasped human nature and want to solve the problem of individuality?

Assignment: If you are someone who changes yourself through learning to achieve happiness and success, you will find that past failures and pain are caused by the opposition between our personality and the commonality of human nature.

For example, human nature tends to seek affirmation and encouragement in order to willingly change, yet you interact with your family through fault-finding, blaming, criticizing, and provoking methods, resulting in unhappiness for the entire family. This is the outcome of your personality clashing with the common aspects of human nature.

If you are a person who gains happiness through change, please validate this principle with your own experiences.
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