🦅 Children have a pair of upward "wings"; never cut them off.

Understanding: Many parents, through their own actions, clip their children's wings; one wing is called confidence, and the other wing is called self-esteem.

As a parent, if you cut off your child's wings with language or various comparisons, it is impossible for your child to soar high. Because self-confidence is his inner drive, while self-esteem is the respect and recognition given by others, which reflects his value.

On the contrary, the correct education is to give your child these two wings, through doing things, companionship, encouragement, discovery, praise, and so on. When your child has confidence and self-esteem, he essentially has the power to rise, which is called ambition, and it is also self-discipline.

In summary, you must never be such parents, clipping your child's wings with wrong behaviors and incorrect education while expecting your child to soar higher. If your child loses the motivation to move upwards, their daily life will become lazy, procrastinating, making excuses, and lacking direction and meaning, leading to a state of giving up.
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