#ETH会延续BTC ETF通过后的大涨趋势吗? Warren Buffett said: "Children from poor families are actually very difficult to turn over, even if they are admitted to college, it is useless, and there is a high probability that they will still live a poor life, because they mature late."


They say that the children of poor people become independent at a young age. This kind of independence refers only to working in the fields, cooking, taking care of younger siblings, and having some basic survival skills. They are completely ignorant of the logic of the whole society and the ways of the world.
They not only do not receive financial support from their family, but also do not receive effective guidance from their family. The reason why their parents have been struggling at the bottom for a lifetime is probably because of their narrow vision, old-fashioned thinking, and inability to adapt. Such parents often give bad advice at critical junctures in their children's lives.
In real life, if a child from a poor family only has a graduation certificate, without resources and connections, without guidance from influential people, it is also difficult for them to cross social classes.
Some children are born with a good platform, so they can start high without much effort to achieve success. However, children from poor families find it difficult to escape poverty because they mature later and their parents are unable to support them.
In our understanding, we feel that we can cross social classes through our own efforts. In fact, it is difficult for you to break new ground alone.
We have always believed that reading is the only chance for us to turn things around. However, after you graduate from college, you will find that entering society is even more difficult.
Can reading really change your destiny? Children from poor families strive to study hard in order to change their own destinies. However, when you make efforts, you may still end up losing at the starting line.
Children living in poor families, because of poverty, grow up early, but being in charge at home just means enduring some hardships and learning to do some chores early on. In fact, it has little to do with one's own horizons and cognition.
If there is no one at home who can guide you and help you solely based on their own life experience and rich knowledge, then you have already fallen behind others, because no one can mentor you and assist you. You need to explore and accumulate on your own.
Learning knowledge and helping parents with housework are exercises to enhance one's survival ability, and the perception of the outside world cannot be changed.
In reality, when parents have limited awareness, conservative thinking, and outdated consciousness, all they can do is pass on their family business to their children. They hope that their children can grow up healthy and happy, and if possible, enter society early and earn money to support the family.
Without background and resources, without the support of a background, and without the help of interpersonal relationships, even if the child can get into university, they may not have good development, and employment may not be ideal. They need to start from the bottom of society and work step by step, because good opportunities and jobs are simply not available to them.
More often than not, even if you work hard, you may not necessarily reap the rewards. When their family does not understand the rules of the whole society and is completely ignorant of the ways of the world, children can only rely on themselves. By the time they understand, it's already too late.
When you read with your heart, after graduation, you will find that a diploma can only prove that you have been to school, and everything else requires you to experience and accumulate bit by bit.
You should know that the children of ordinary families, if they want to succeed, need to pay a great price and also need to take many detours. There are many things that are not beyond their imagination, but they cannot do it for various reasons.
Some things are as difficult as reaching the sky for ordinary families, but for those with resources and background, it's nothing at all. That's the difference.
Luo Xiang said, "People from dysfunctional families, if they are a bit slow, or even quite slow, are already outstanding. Don't blame yourself, because while others were growing up, you were still trapped in the internal conflicts of your family, and while others were building their careers, you were still focused on yourself."
If no one in the family leads the way and lets themselves be consumed by spiritual self-struggle and unable to extricate themselves, others have already done a lot.
Children from dysfunctional families, if they cannot break through the limitations of self and cannot come into contact with higher social classes, will be trapped in the mindset of their family and can only remain stagnant and confined within their own boundaries.
Dong Yuhui said, "Having parents' support is a straight road, not having parents' support is a winding road. By the time you navigate the winding road, others have already taken the expressway."
Therefore, it's really difficult for children from poor families to change their destiny through studying. Only by striving for comprehensive development, working harder than others, encountering influential people in life, or truly having talent, can they have a chance to change their fate.
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