Never feel embarrassed or ashamed, and do not overestimate others' interest in you. People who are afraid of embarrassment and shame essentially have too strong a self-consciousness; they care too much about others' evaluations of themselves, which leads them to stay fixed in their comfort zones and not dare to try new things they like. Because they fear embarrassment and cannot take the first step, they miss many opportunities for personal growth. Remember, you do not have that many audience members. Even if you make a mistake, not caring about others' evaluations of you will mean you will never feel embarrassed. You must live authentically.
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People who are stronger than you generally won't chat with you unless they have something to discuss. If the communication cost with someone is greater than the cost of doing things, please stay away and stop loss in a timely manner; the earlier you withdraw, the smaller the loss. Those who are weaker than you cannot provide any value, including emotional value; they will only drain your energy and disrupt your emotions. The skills that the weak practice are pretending, acting, and moving others, while the strong only need to distance themselves. Otherwise, you will be consumed to the poin
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