Never feel embarrassed or ashamed, and do not overestimate others' interest in you. People who are afraid of embarrassment and shame essentially have too strong a self-consciousness; they care too much about others' evaluations of themselves, which leads them to stay fixed in their comfort zones and not dare to try new things they like. Because they fear embarrassment and cannot take the first step, they miss many opportunities for personal growth. Remember, you do not have that many audience members. Even if you make a mistake, not caring about others' evaluations of you will mean you will never feel embarrassed. You must live authentically.
RaiseYourHeadAndWeal
Staying composed is the best fortune. The temporary inability to obtain what you seek may not be due to insufficient effort, but rather a misalignment with the rhythm of destiny. Everything has its time; forcing matters will only add to your troubles. The Tao Te Ching states: "Doing nothing and yet nothing is left undone." True wisdom lies in understanding how to go with the flow rather than forcing against it. Softness and weakness often possess a more enduring strength than rigidity. The more eager you are for quick results, the more likely you are to achieve the opposite; the more you settl
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